*Anal sex - intercourse in anal hole with fingers, toys or penis in order to cause pleasure.

Fear from the unknown is dangerous, as our imaginations playing in our head are way worse than the reality. Great example of this is the link of “shit” accidents and anal sex that automatically pop out in our head. Expectations are very scary in the sense of dirty sheets or genitals, but in reality when you follow a few simple rules these kinds of accidents are almost impossible and also mens don't care about it, at least not as much as you think. Based on our research mens are more focused on women's safety, painless act and pleasurable end for both. None of them mentioned the problem with pollution, quite the opposite. Mens are eager to help their halves with this fear.

Anal sex hides in itself, we will first discuss the obstacles of anal sex that can occur.

1. STIs Sexually transmitted infections

You must be very careful in order to prevent yourself from STIs which can be passed during anal sex as it has a higher risk of spreading STIs than any other sexual activity. We recommend protecting yourself using condoms with water based lubricant, as it is a better choice unlike the oil-based lubricant which can cause latex condoms to break or fail.

2. Bacterial Infections

Infections can occur in rectum and also in vagina. The rectum’s lining is thin and with lack of lubrication is most likely to get torn. These minor injuries itself are not so dangerous, but as the stool full of bacteria is leaving the body, naturally could contaminate these injuries. Subsequently, the risk of infection and inflammation will rise. Given that, the vagina is very close to the back door during, and most likely after the intercourse contamination of the vagina with fluids from the other hole can occur and because of this, hygiene must be the Nr.1 priority It is crucial as it is also after vaginal sex go to the toilet and after to clean yourself in order to minimize the risk of infection or inflammation.

3. Tissue tear out

Rectum’s lining doesn't have sufficient lubrication which predisposes it to tearing when overused, so you need to be very careful. IYour nails and also you partner need to be cut and toys shouldn't have sharp edges.

List of obstacles connected to anal sex is longer and surely contains Fecal incontinence, Hemorrhoids, fistula etc., but this article is about the pleasure the anal sex can bring to you and the verified instructions on how to perform it in order to enjoy pleasurable times and reach the orgasm.

“How to reach orgasm during anal sex”

First of all, the videos on Pornhub.com where the actors without any preparation jump right on it and have exciting animal sex with loud orgasm is more like a movie with CGI effects. Naturally, it is possible but very unlikely just by the fact that anal sex is different for men and women. Mens are hard and ready just by saying: “ Let's have anal sex” . Womens on the other hand are not so eager, especially when it is at the beginning of the anal sex journey. Important thing to remember is: “foreplay is the key”

We recommend to start training your anal muscles to get used to the feeling of being penetrated. At the beginning the fingers will be sufficient but later will be good to purchase some anal plug, which will adjust your asshole for later action but it can be used during regular sex and you will feel what this does to you and unlock the new feelings.

So, the anal plug is not mandatory but is highly recommended together with a lot of lubricants. To perform anal sex especially if it is for the first time you will need time and thorough preparation. So please, light the candle up, turn on some music, drink wine and start playing with your partner. Foreplay is totally up to you, but please include this particular position into it: (link na poziciu bangwheel) which secure that the butthole will be relaxed and a little bit wider for everything that is going to be introduced in it.

Step by step instruction for anal sex

1. Position yourself. Lay down comfortably so that the partner on top has good access to the genitals of the partner on the bottom to play with. With the right alignment you may play with both genitals and your partner can be totally focused on the butthole.

2. Put 1 finger into butthole. At the beginning it will be good to start licking the star, and if you are feeling good to go, put your finger in. Although initially shocking, I assure you it will be worthwhile.

3. Stimulation of genitals. Even if it doesn't seem this step is crucial, because ass is automatically flexing after an intruder disturb her space, so you must continue with stimulation of genitals.

4. Put 2 fingers into butthole. As soon as the partner starts enjoying the finger in the butthole, add another.

5. Repeat steps 1. - 5. Repeat steps into the point when you will be ready to continue into another phase.

6. Put the beast inside. Take the lubes and pour it on the genitals and your back doors, then slowly and carefully start coming inside. The hole will be adjusted but it needs a little bit of time. Remember, if you are a man without circumcision it is important to pull out the foreskin.

7. Start thrusting. With stimulation of the genitals you can enjoy it to a pleasurable end. For me personally it's awesome, that we can cum simultaneously and we don't have to worry about pregnancy.

I hope this article will help you on your way to anal sex journey and remember the key factors to pleasurable anal sex are preparation, foreplay, communication and a LOT of lubrication. If you change your mind at any point please feel free to say NO!

TIPS:

• Get underneath you some bedsheet in order to prevent pollution of your bed linen. Go to the toilet but not right before the anal sex.
• If you want to be sure that everything will be OK and no shitty accident happens, try to put your finger into you and if the finger is clean everything will be probably fine.
• Once you are in anus don't go back to vagina without cleaning you first as you can bring infections that way.
• Always use toys designed for anal sex, they are modified in order to cause no harm and don't go all the way up as they have a flared base.
• From my own experience I recommend together with Anal Plug use also lovense lush. You could put on some fancy dress, a little bit of make-up and go out with your lover. During dinner your partner could control the toy via mobile and you will be busy preventing moans escaping your mouth. It is a great way to start the night. It works like magic for me, so try now, thank me later!